A lot of people have been honest in the last however many years and have said
You can only give it your best so that both of you are happy. However, that doesn’t guarantee a divorce free marriage..
I was never happy with such comments. In my mind I would never divorce my husband unless I was being physically abused… that was something that was not excusable. The man I married told me that divorce was out of the question.. it was a western’s way of life.
When we spoke about divorce in week 1, I asked him about what he had said earlier.
That was then and this is now … things change.
I realised from many moments and conversations with him the sheer immaturity within him and me. The folks I had basic conversations with prior were more mature than this person.
It’s only after you married me you mentioned that you do believe in divorce and separation. There need be no answers and since he will not and refuses to compromise on anything since he doesn’t feel happy with me in this relationship he wants to divorce. I felt like there was no room for negotiation or even an attempt to try work things out. I suppose it never sunk in fully until you told me you wouldn’t spend another day of your life with me even in an attempt to reconcile. It was then that I felt you had fully cloaked your feelings and presented yourself as someone else in front of me and my family just to trial the concept of marriage.
Fraud via the Daily Post